With over 30 years experience of both the good, the bad and the ugly aspects of married life, Mrs. Abosede Tijani – a consummate businesswoman - fits the portrait of a veteran on matters of dating, courtship and marriage. In a recent interview with PM News, she brought her wealth of experience to bare on the thorny issues of trust and infidelity bedeviling many 21 century relationships/marriages...
Read on and adjust accordingly:
At first men show you love to the extent that you feel on top of the world but at the end, they share your love with another woman. Once you realise this, work hard to be able to stand on your feet financially. African men are the same. My advice to any woman who is suspicious of her husband is to calm down and get herself busy.
Prying could be a very good reason for a man to want to divorce his wife... I have seen a man whose wife discovered was cheating on her and confronted him. Do you know the man’s response? He told the woman: ‘so you have been prying on me? Since that is what you have been doing, I want a divorce right away’. There are times you discover your man’s infidelity and keep it to yourself to save your marriage. Every woman should show patience.
The truth is that it takes the grace of God for a man to be 100 percent faithful to his wife. But if a man is greedy, there is nothing you can do about it. My advice to any woman who suspects her partner of cheating on her is to always pray and always keep herself busy so that she won’t get heart attack. A woman should not be surprised that when the husband dies, another woman could appear from nowhere with children that she has had for the late husband”.
She said a whole lot on the subject but I edited the material to suit this purpose. Hope you would find her “realistic” information helpful in your relationship and marriage.
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