The Reason Many Single Ladies Are Not Getting Married

You are not married not because there is no man ready for marriage as a good number of men are looking for life partners. The major reason Nigerian Men are now scared of marriage is waywardness. Men are now afraid because they don’t know who to trust and also not sure if that beautiful girl they are interested in still has her womb intact.

They are also afraid because of the high mountain ladies have suddenly placed themselves on as no woman wants to date an average man any longer but are all interested in those with good cars, houses and lots of money.  A man recently told me why he does not allow his girlfriends to come to his house. According to him, he doesn’t want a case where one of them will enter his house only for her to refuse leaving because of the beauty of the house and cars she will see. 

Isn’t it surprising how single ladies now out-dress married women with good jobs whose husbands are very rich? You are not married because the single men around you are wondering if they will be able to meet up with your ever-demanding lifestyle. Even when they know they can afford it, what makes them believe you won’t take a walk tomorrow if anything goes wrong? 

Another reason is that with your good job and salary, they are even afraid to come near you as they wouldn’t want to be turned down. I have a female colleague, a very pretty girl who lives in her own house and drives a posh car. She also has different businesses to show for it. Recently, I advised her to calm down a bit as friends I introduce her to who ordinarily would have gone for her, all run away after meeting her and come back to me with the same word, “Amara, this one go send me go village.” 

Another reason you are going to grow old in your father’s house is this: You want a ready-made man instead of a growing man with vision. Are you aware that if you have not obtained favour from God, the man will decrease instead of increasing when you enter his house? Work on your character, the words that come from your mouth, your lifestyle, the way you carry yourself, the way you dress, the places you visit and then spend time trying to find favour before God because it’s only favour that can make your husband increase the moment you step into his life. 

In fact, the moment a man proposes to you, there must be some positive movements in his finance if at all you have obtained favour... I always tell ladies that if by the age of 30 no man had asked to know if you are for sale, there is something wrong somewhere; its either spiritual or attitudinal.  But the truth is that it is always more attitudinal than spiritual... This is the moment of truth and if at all you want to be delivered, your decision to deliver yourself is the first step to your breakthrough.

Culled and partly edited from an Article written by AMARA >